Dear Mom,

(I've been itching to post this after my WONDERFUL weekend with mom and dad in town. I love them both and owe them the world. They are exceptional parents and really FUN friends :))

Mom,
I know I said thank you for all you did a million times, but I wanted to write it out and try to express the magnitude.

One of the many fortunate things about our relationship, including dad, is that we are great friends. I was looking just as forward to seeing you as I have any of my other girlfriends. I couldn't wait for you to see where Bill and I have started our life together and how I've adjusted since he's been gone. More important..I wanted you to meet our friends - the people who are there for Bill and I both unconditionally and have continued that dedication since he's been gone. They are good people...just like you and dad. :) I knew you'd get along beautifully.

I greatly appreciate your help here in the house. After all of our conversation this weekend, I can say...decorating and pulling it together seemed overwhelming in the beginning. Therefore, things got placed and continued to "just fit." However, after time in the house with Bill, time in the house without Bill, and someone like yourself whom I respect and love immensely...I needed the prodding to change some of the things I've wanted to change. It's that saying that creeps up again...it does so in ALL WALKS OF LIFE...if you WANT different results - you must change the initial behavior.

Not only was yours and dad's visit comforting, enjoyable, and filled with love...it was also very helpful and motivating.

You guys are my friends (Bill's too :)) and I would have you down as much as possible any time you're available. :) Until next time....

I love you both,
Brandi